Attunement

Essays on what it takes to truly connect.

2026
Love as a Second Language
My dad and I speak different languages. What happens when we keep reaching across a gap we can't quite close?
Heart · 8 min
Deals and Vows
The two hidden games of human connection, and how to spot which one you're actually playing.
Lens · 7 min
2025
How to Steal a Car Politely
After midnight on the expressway, something felt off. The evidence mounted. I was wrong about all of it.
Story · 6 min
The Draining Middle
Not great, not terrible. The most dangerous situations are just good enough to keep you trapped. Here's the way out.
Lens · 7 min
My Weapon of Choice
What was my antidote to years of relentless striving? Chasing the world's best Christopher Walken impression.
Reflection · 8 min
Cherry Luden's and a Weightless Heart
A single cherry lozenge. A quiet afternoon with my mom. A rare feeling I wouldn't understand for decades.
Heart · 5 min
The Anchor Score
Some friendships drain you. Others become your safe harbor. This is a simple language for seeing where to invest your heart.
Lens · 6 min
It Waited in the Attic
My phone buzzed with a late-night alert. What turned on me was biding its time in the dark. So was what saved me.
Reflection · 5 min
Substance vs. Sheen
A vulnerable speech. A room full of applause. What really endures after the spotlight fades?
Reflection · 4 min
Parental Advisory
As my parents entered their 80s, I feared their stories would be lost. This is how a conversation game opened a door I thought was permanently closed.
Heart · 5 min