Attunement
Essays on what it takes to truly connect.
2026
Love as a Second Language
My dad and I speak different languages. What happens when we keep reaching across a gap we can't quite close?
Deals and Vows
The two hidden games of human connection, and how to spot which one you're actually playing.
2025
How to Steal a Car Politely
After midnight on the expressway, something felt off. The evidence mounted. I was wrong about all of it.
The Draining Middle
Not great, not terrible. The most dangerous situations are just good enough to keep you trapped. Here's the way out.
My Weapon of Choice
What was my antidote to years of relentless striving? Chasing the world's best Christopher Walken impression.
Cherry Luden's and a Weightless Heart
A single cherry lozenge. A quiet afternoon with my mom. A rare feeling I wouldn't understand for decades.
The Anchor Score
Some friendships drain you. Others become your safe harbor. This is a simple language for seeing where to invest your heart.
It Waited in the Attic
My phone buzzed with a late-night alert. What turned on me was biding its time in the dark. So was what saved me.
Substance vs. Sheen
A vulnerable speech. A room full of applause. What really endures after the spotlight fades?
Parental Advisory
As my parents entered their 80s, I feared their stories would be lost. This is how a conversation game opened a door I thought was permanently closed.